But what if you do? What if you let go of the idea that it has to be a certain person, and instead embrace the belief that whoever you end up with will be someone you love? Indeed, it’s someone you choose. Someone who truly loves you back. Someone who reciprocates your vulnerability, your feelings, your love. Someone who doesn’t make you question your place in their heart. Someone who makes you feel safe, whether they’re near or far, yet excites you to explore and discover together.
One day, you’ll figure out who that is. All you need to do is accept that it may or may not be the person who’s been living rent-free in your head. Because no one has to love you just because you love them, and vice versa. True love isn’t an obligation—it’s an active choice. And that’s the only way to make space for something real, someone real, who loves you just as much as you love them.
Because it’s easy to break the wrong thing but incredibly hard to break the right thing. Because you choose not to settle without your heart’s agreement. And once you truly internalize what that means, you won’t ask this question anymore. You’ll just know.
You’ll know that it’s simply not possible.
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